Grateful #4: What are you thankful for this week?

This week, we were fortunate enough to spend a lot of time with family – enjoying the ease, comfort and reassurance that comes with being with others who know us and love us the best. The kids and I have been wrapped up in a cocoon of warmth and love all week, and it’s made me truly thankful for the wonderful family we have.

But, in particular, this week I’m grateful for:

Cousins. They were our first childhood playmates, and now our most beloved friends as adults – both Kim and I are so fortunate to have such a wonderful group of talented, kind-hearted, ambitious, and beautiful cousins, who we both admire and respect so much.

Hugs. Don’t they just make things seem more manageable and easier to bear? Hugs encourage, congratulate, welcome, comfort, and hearten; they cheer, calm, reassure, and delight. Hugs say, ‘you belong here: you belong with me.’

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Sweets. I am currently in possession of the sweetest tooth ever created. Give me a tart, cookie, pie, slice, muffin, or something caramel, custard or chocolate filled, and I’m yours.  But this week I learnt that Banoffie pie and/or raspberry almond tart can be so much more delicious when shared with someone you care about (and even better when it’s eaten in place of lunch).

What are you grateful for this week?

Nat

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Creative Possibilities

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I love to sew. I love the hum of the old sewing machine, the smell of new fabric, and seeing a lovely handmade thing come together in an afternoon.

But, I have to admit, I find it really difficult translating my lovely ideas to a finished product, and this week, I figured out why: it’s because I have no experience with reading or making patterns. When I sit down to organise a new idea, I have trouble putting things together, mainly because I don’t always understand the way patterns work – like turning things inside out and wrong way around. I think like a creative, not like a practical seamstress/sew-er.

So, knowing how basic and important this ability is, I’m launching a little experiment – to develop lots of new and valuable skills, I’m going to attempt one new pattern per month; something readily available (and free) on the internet, and something that will hopefully teach me the skills I’ll need to make my own patterns once I’ve developed a little more confidence.

What do you think? Want to join in too?

Nat

Grateful #3: What are you thankful for today?

There’s a cacophony of cockatoos and lorikeets in the neighbourhood, the sun is warming our living spaces, the kettle is hot, and I’m having honey on toast for breakfast. It’s the weekend, finally! and today I’m grateful for:

Cooler weather. I love summer, and the beautiful, scorching summer sun, but this week I’m grateful for cooler weather, crisp early mornings, pyjamas, hot chocolate with marshmallows, and warming comfort food.

Washing machines. Most of the time, my laundry looks as though a bomb has exploded - even though I wash on a daily basis; some days, it’s seriously all I do.

But just imagine how much harder this task would be if we didn’t have our lovely washing machines: Imagine boiling water, soaking clothes, hand scrubbing with salt and vinegar, hand pressing the water from piles of clothes and linen, and all the hours and hours and hours involved in such a task.

Thank goodness for washing machines.

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I love you. Such small, powerful words! This week, our youngest said ‘I love you’ for the first time – right before bed. I thought my heart was going to burst, I was so proud of her; I also wanted her to say it a dozen more times, because the words sounded so sweet, but she refused – she’s a girl who knows her own mind. Just once, and once was more than enough.

What are you grateful for this week?

Nat

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Parenting 101

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Now, I confess - I’m not even close to being an expert! – but the following are random observations from my own very partial, biased and often quite naive perspective on parenting toddlers:

1. Boys like to fix. I’m not sure if this is an innate, male driven thing, or whether it’s just my boy, but Judah’s a great pretend fixer. Give him a screwdriver and a mission, and he’ll stay happily engaged in the fixing of said thing for more than just a couple of minutes. Fixing also includes medical and dental. I had a check-up with a toy drill, a screwdriver, and an oversized plastic nut and bolt just yesterday.
2. Boys are very affectionate. This surprised me. I assumed that the girls would be the ones for cuddles and kisses, but it’s Judah who’s on my lap the most, and who wants the longest bedtime cuddle. I like it; it’s like the slate is wiped clean every night, no matter how much of a wretched a day we’ve had together.
3. Mothers are the hardest working people around. Not only does raising children require a super set of skills, it also requires unlimited patience, love, affection, energy, compassion, and a freaky second sight, which allows you to pre-empt any accidents, dangerous situations, and potentially tantrum-ous conditions. I love my own mother to bits, but I never really understood her until I had children of my own. Now I think she’s a superhero.
4. Nothing beats the glow of a newborn, and the sweetness of family during the newborn phase. But, as lovely as newborns are, and in spite of how beautiful they smell, and how wonderful they are to hug and snuggle up to, I must remind myself that it’s not the greatest excuse to think about having another baby. Think instead: two hourly feeds, vomit, never-ending nappies, and no sleep.
5. When everything is hard and frustrating, as raising children sometimes is, the best way to break the tension and to soothe a stand-off situation is to laugh.
6. Don’t be afraid to use television to your advantage. Now, I’m not saying to sit your kids down in front of it for eight hours a day, but if it allows you to have a cup of tea and ten minutes peace to recharge – do it, and don’t feel guilty.
7. Little girls are very clever, and are born with all the skills necessary to efficiently and effectively wrap everyone around their little finger.
8. Going outside cures most tantrums. If in the midst of a crazy tear-your-hair-out horrid fit of temper, open the doors, put on a hat and defuse the tantrum in an instant by letting them escape into nature. Note: this does not work when in public. Public tantrums seem to be a toddler right of passage.
9. Don’t fight with a fussy eater. Apparently toddlers live on air.
10. When in the midst of a horrid day, remember - this too, shall pass. Hang in there, kiddo.

Do you have any tried and tested parenting advice?

Nat

Heavenly Handmade...

Do you buy handmade?

There has been a real resurgence for handmade in Brisbane, and steady growth in clever local artists selling their beautiful goods – and I for one am very glad. Sites like madeit and Etsy have made accessing handmade even easier, and little boutique markets are popping up all over the place and developing a loyal handmade following.

I love handmade items – and no, it’s not just because we run Quill and Ink Handmade, and love making gorgeous things for lovely people. I love buying handmade because it supports local artists, stay-at-home mums and dads, hobbyists, and clever creative types; I also love buying something that’s been made with care and love, something that’s been locally designed and produced, and something that supports our local economy.

But my favourite reason for buying handmade? Every artist generally has a great story to tell about the origins of their business; and therefore, every piece has a great story.

Take, for instance, the lovely Steph from Mon Petite Poppet: she began her French inspired clothing label when little daughter Bijou was born. Admitting to having a passion for all things French, Steph wanted to create clothes for her little jewel Bijou that weren’t frilly or fussy, that were practical, made with beautiful natural materials, and that shied away from the brand name gauntlet. The result is the most divine collection of French inspired blouses (and one seriously cute denim cape with red and white polka dot lining), which feature beautiful patterns in soft natural colours.

 Available at Mon Petit Poppet on Etsy

Another favourite: The beautiful and very sweet Kia from Hello Kia. Kia handcrafts the loveliest stamps sets which combine traditional Japanese carving methods, learnt in the mountain village of Takayama, with the Danish idea of hygge (sense of warmth, homeliness), and taking joy in ordinary things. Quite a culture mix, huh?

Her stamp sets are distinctive, quirky, fun, and sweetly simple – and each one celebrates the everyday in the most delightful of ways. The clever Kia also makes gorgeous crochet baby rattles using super soft Australian merino wool – a skill learnt as a child from her mother, and an old fashioned style that she’s lovingly reviving.

 Available from Hello Kia on Etsy and Kia Hing Fay's Website

I love that Brisbane is bustling with handmade loveliness, and that ordinary people are taking the plunge and creating extraordinary, beautiful, and meaningful things. And it’s a lovely thing to be a part of this blossoming community of creatives.

 Do you like buying handmade? Have you recently bought a handmade item with a great story behind it?

Nat

Ps. Follow Kia and Steph in blog-land too!

Kia: http://www.kiahingfay.com/blog/

Steph: http://monpetitpoppet.blogspot.com/



 

Point and Shoot: We begin and end with family...

This weekend we were fortunate enough to spend time with the people we love most in the world – family and friends. But our favourite? A drive to the country to look for cows (Judah's new obsession), which we found on the narrow laneways leading out to the Mt Mee state forest…

Just us, all four, exploring...

Finding new favourites, little feet on well worn paths, faces turned up to the forest canopy – can you still see the sky?

And the discovery of a waterfall and a cascading nest of rock pools framed by twisted roots, the water and banks stained with tannin...

What did you do this weekend?

Nat

Want to play too? Point and Shoot is now being hosted by the lovely Lou from Sunny+Scout – for more information on how to join in, go here.

Grateful #2: What are you thankful for today?

Happy weekend!

Firstly, I just wanted to shout out a big gushy, sentimental thank you! to everyone that has been reading, following, and commenting on our blog – it warms my heart, and if you could see me right now, typing away, complete with a cup of tea, I’m actually grinning. Thank you for your support – it’s a wonderful, wonderful thing.

This week, as well as being grateful for blogs, free speech, and lovely, supportive readers, I’m grateful for:

Cameras. Instant memory catchers. This week I’ve been snap-happy trying to capture Lou’s new smile – and have taken about a hundred photos of her sweet face without once having captured that particular smile. Think: wee baby teeth, crinkled nose, and a little lady who knows exactly how adorable that grin really is.

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Lactose free milk. A tall, cold glass of milk, and freshly baked chocolate chip cookies. Enough said.

Charlotte Bronte. Ploughing through Jane Eyre at breakneck speed – currently at the part where lovely Jane, beautifully humble in her modest wedding garb is about to say her vows in the chapel, only to be told that her fiancé, the eccentric Mr. Rochester, has a mad, violent wife imprisoned in his house. I love the high drama, the exaggerated morality, and general swoony-ness of this book; and it’s been so lovely snuggling down in bed with a night-light to read away while the house sleeps.

What are you grateful for this week?

Nat

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